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Prayer for your parents and all your relatives

A Latin prayer of about AD 800 for your father and mother and all your relatives, the living and the departed. It comes down under the name of Alcuin of York.

Picture: Ary Scheffer, Saint Augustine and Saint Monica, 1854

The words of the prayer

Plain English only: no traditional English wording is given for this prayer

Sovereign Lord, almighty God,You made all things wonderfullyand created everything by Your design.You ordained that children should be bornof a man and a woman,and You commanded us to show love and affectionto our father and mother.

Merciful God, hear me as I cry to Youfor my father and for my mother.In Your providence You were pleasedto give me both of them, lowly as I am.

I cry to You also for my brothers and sistersand for all my family,who are joined to me, a sinner, by blood,both the living and the departed.You, the Lord God of all,know their names and their merits.

Protect them and defend them from all evil,and set them on the way of salvation.Do not let their days come to an enduntil You have forgiven their sinsthrough a true confessionand true amends for all their wrongs,so that when they have laid aside the bodyYou may make them worthy of a share in heaven.

Saviour of the world,You live and reign with God the Father and the Holy Spiritfor ever and ever. Amen.

Plain English by Wiser Walk, from the Latin in Migne’s Patrologia Latina, without a closing section for those who gave alms to the community. How the wording is made.

When it is said

The book that holds it places it among prayers for the needs of every day, just after a prayer to say when psalms are sung for someone else.

Anyone can pray it for their own family at any time.

The Latin leaves a space after “my father” and “my mother” for their names.

Where it comes from

Author by tradition

Where it comes from

It stands in a little Latin book on using the psalms, which opens with two lines of verse saying that Alcuin of York made it. A monk of Ferrières wrote a short Life of Alcuin before AD 829, and it describes a book of his on which psalms to pray in penance, in praise of God and in any trouble.

Migne, Patrologia Latina 101, columns 493 and 494; Gerald Ellard, “The Odyssey of a Familiar Prayer”, Theological Studies (1941)

Who was Alcuin?

Alcuin was a deacon of the church at York, in England. He met Charlemagne at Parma in AD 781 and accepted the king’s invitation to join his court. In AD 796 he became abbot of St Martin’s at Tours, where he spent the last eight years of his life.

Gerald Ellard, “Alcuin and Some Favored Votive Masses”, Theological Studies (1940)

Did Alcuin write the words?

Alcuin may have chosen this prayer rather than written it, because he filled the book with prayers from a wide variety of sources. The Latin in Migne’s Patrologia comes from an edition printed at Cologne in 1571, made from a manuscript so badly kept that its editor struggled to read the letters.

Gerald Ellard, “The Odyssey of a Familiar Prayer”, Theological Studies (1941); Migne, Patrologia Latina 101, the editors’ preface

The Scripture in it

Honor your father and mother, so that your days may be long in the land that the LORD your God is giving you.

Exodus 20:12 Echoed The prayer recalls God’s command to honour your father and mother.

So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth and subdue it; rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air and every creature that crawls upon the earth.”

Genesis 1:27-28 Echoed God made them male and female and told them to be fruitful, as the prayer recalls.

Bible text: Berean Standard Bible, public domain.

In Latin

Dominator Domine Deus omnipotens, qui mirabiliter cuncta condidisti, et tua dispositione omnia creasti,

quique jussisti conditionem propagandae sobolis ex viro et femina esse,

et praecepisti dilectionem et amorem circa patrem matremque exhibere;

exaudi me misericors Deus clamantem ad te pro genitore meo N. et pro genitrice mea N.,

quorum utrumque ex tua providentia mihi humillimo praeparare dignatus es;

seu et fratribus meis atque sororibus, omnique parentela,

qui mihi peccatori ex carnis consanguinitate conjuncti sunt, tam vivis quam et defunctis,

quorum nomina et merita tibi Domino Deo universorum cognita sunt,

ut protegas eos atque ab omni malo defendas, et in via salutis eos disponas;

et ne dies eorum ante finiri sinas, quam per veram confessionem, veramque emendationem suorum omnium delictorum, peccata dimittas,

ut carne exutos coelesti participatione dignos efficias.

[…]

Servator mundi, qui cum Deo Patre et Spiritu sancto vivis et regnas in saecula saeculorum. Amen.

From De psalmorum usu, in Migne’s Patrologia Latina, volume 101.

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