When it is said
Pray it when friends and family keep their distance and you feel forgotten.
The Church reads it at Great Compline, which on the eves of Christmas and Theophany joins Matins to make the All-Night Vigil.
Where it comes from
Author by tradition
For when friends turn on you
In his letter on praying the Psalms, St Athanasius of Alexandria gives this psalm to anyone hated and hounded by all their friends and relatives for holding to the truth. His advice is not to lose heart or cower, even when acquaintances turn away, but to stand back from it all, look to what is coming and sing this psalm.
St Athanasius, Letter to Marcellinus on the Psalms (the Greek, from the Thesaurus Linguae Graecae)
Prayed from the cross
The fifth verse of this psalm reads, “Into Your hands I commit my spirit.” As He died on the cross, Jesus called out these words with a loud voice and began them with “Father” (Luke 23:46). Then He breathed His last.
The Scripture in it
In You, O LORD, I have taken refuge; let me never be put to shame; save me by Your righteousness. Incline Your ear to me; come quickly to my rescue. Be my Rock of refuge, the stronghold of my deliverance. For You are my Rock and my fortress; lead me and guide me for the sake of Your name. You free me from the net laid out for me, for You are my refuge. Into Your hands I commit my spirit; You have redeemed me, O LORD, God of truth.
Be merciful to me, O LORD, for I am in distress; my eyes fail from sorrow, my soul and body as well.
Among all my enemies I am a disgrace, and among my neighbors even more. I am dreaded by my friends—they flee when they see me on the street. I am forgotten like a dead man, out of mind. I am like a broken vessel.
But I trust in You, O LORD; I say, “You are my God.” My times are in Your hands; deliver me from my enemies and from those who pursue me. Make Your face shine on Your servant; save me by Your loving devotion.
In my alarm I said, “I am cut off from Your sight!” But You heard my plea for mercy when I called to You for help.
Be strong and courageous, all you who hope in the LORD.
Bible text: Berean Standard Bible, public domain.