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Prayer for the loss of a baby

A prayer for parents who have lost a baby before birth, blessed in 2012 for an American Orthodox diocese. It asks God to accept their sorrow and give them peace.

Picture: James Tissot, Jesus Wept, 1886–94

The words of the prayer

Plain English only: no traditional English wording is given for this prayer

O Lord, You have spoken through the prophet Jeremiah,saying, “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you.”Blessed are You, God of compassion and consolation.You know the name and age of each person,even from their mother’s womb.Accept the sorrow of us who are grieved by the loss of this baby.You know the desires of our hearts.Help us to have confidence in Your sustaining presence,at this moment and in future days.

Through the prayers of all the saints and of the Mother of God,grant us Your peace, O Lord, and have mercy on us,for You alone are compassionate,and to You we give glory,to the Father and to the Son and to the Holy Spirit,now and always, and for ever and ever. Amen.

Plain English by Wiser Walk, from the 2012 English of the Orthodox Church in America’s Diocese of New York and New Jersey, with only small changes: capitals for God, “Mother of God” for “Theotokos” and today’s words in the closing lines. How the wording is made.

When it is said

A priest prays it in a short service of prayer for a miscarried or stillborn child, at the time of the loss or at any time after.

Its words speak for everyone who grieves the baby (“us who are grieved by the loss of this baby”), so a mother and father might also pray it together at home.

Where it comes from

No author known

A service for one diocese

In September 2012 Bishop Michael of New York blessed a short service of prayer for a miscarried or stillborn child, for use in his diocese of the Orthodox Church in America. It is meant above all for when a priest is called to a miscarriage or stillbirth.

Diocese of New York and New Jersey, Service of Prayer for a Miscarried or Stillborn Child (2012)

The 2012 words and the 2015 service

In October 2015 the bishops of the whole Orthodox Church in America approved a service after a miscarriage or stillbirth. In that service these words were reworded and joined to the end of a longer prayer, which begins with Isaiah’s promise of new heavens and a new earth. The prayer here is the shorter one, as the diocese printed it in 2012.

Orthodox Church in America, news of 26 October 2015; Orthodox Church in America, Service after a Miscarriage or Stillbirth (2015)

The Scripture in it

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I set you apart and appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”

Jeremiah 1:5 Quoted God’s words when He called Jeremiah to be a prophet, which the prayer opens on.

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, Who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.

2 Corinthians 1:3-4 Echoed Paul’s “the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort” lies behind the prayer’s “God of compassion and consolation”.

Bible text: Berean Standard Bible, public domain.

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