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Prayer when a loved one has died

A prayer from an early Roman book, said after someone has died. It speaks for the mourners and asks God to receive their loved one gently.

Picture: Jan Victors, Ruth Swearing Her Allegiance to Naomi, 1653

The words of the prayer

Plain English only: no traditional English wording is given for this prayer

Stunned by a cruel wound that is still fresh,and wounded, as it were, in our hearts,with weeping voices we beg Your mercy,Redeemer of the world.

Receive gently and tenderlythe soul of our dear (name),returning to You, the One Who gave it.

If it picked up any stainswhile it lived here in the body,O God, in the goodness that is Yours by nature,blot them out in Your mercy,forgive them in Your love,and let them be forgotten for ever.

Command that this soulbe gathered into the company of Your saints.With them it will praise You,and one day it will return to its body.

Through our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.

Plain English by Wiser Walk, from our own English from the Latin of H. A. Wilson’s 1894 edition. How the wording is made.

When it is said

The Gelasian Sacramentary sets it among the “prayers after a person’s death”. The prayers for carrying the body to the grave follow them.

The book holds the priest’s part of the services, but this prayer speaks for all who mourn. A family might pray it together in the first hours after a death, or one person alone.

Where it comes from

No author known

An early Roman book

The prayer comes from the Gelasian Sacramentary, the book of the priest’s prayers in the early church of Rome. Its Roman core was written between AD 628 and 715, and it survives in a Frankish copy made about AD 750. Only one older service book of the Western Church has come down to us.

H. A. Wilson (ed.), The Gelasian Sacramentary (1894), page 295; The Cult of Saints database, University of Oxford, E07005

A prayer for everyone gathered

Just before it, the priest speaks to the people, his “dearest brothers”, and asks them to join him in remembering their dear one, whom the Lord has taken from the temptations of this world. This prayer then speaks for all of them, as people whose hearts have been wounded by a death.

H. A. Wilson (ed.), The Gelasian Sacramentary (1894), page 295

The Scripture in it

… before the dust returns to the ground from which it came and the spirit returns to God Who gave it.

Ecclesiastes 12:7 Echoed The spirit returns to God Who gave it.

Bible text: Berean Standard Bible, public domain.

In Latin

Diri vulneris novitate perculsi, et quodammodo cordibus sauciati,

misericordiam tuam, mundi redemptor, flebilibus vocibus imploramus,

ut cari nostri N. animam ad te datorem proprium revertentem

blande leniterque suscipias,

et si quas illa ex hac carnali commoratione contraxit maculas,

tu, Deus, inolita bonitate clementer deleas,

pie indulgeas, oblivioni in perpetuum tradas,

atque hanc eandem laudes tibi cum ceteris reddituram,

et ad corpus quandoque reversuram,

sanctorum tuorum coetibus aggregari praecipias.

Per Dominum.

From the Gelasian Sacramentary (Vatican, Reginensis 316), ed. H. A. Wilson (Oxford, 1894), the prayers after a person’s death (Book III, XCI), its second prayer.

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