When it is said
It was made to be sung at a funeral, with the last line of each verse sung in answer.
Anyone may pray it in grief for a wife, a mother or another woman they loved.
Where it comes from
Author by tradition
A Syriac funeral hymn
This is one of 85 funeral hymns printed in Syriac under St Ephrem the Syrian’s name, in the Roman edition of his works (1732 to 1743). The Syriac churches have sung his hymns at baptisms and at burials. The Anglican priest Henry Burgess put this one into English in 1853 and called it “On the Death of a Woman”.
Henry Burgess, Select Metrical Hymns and Homilies of Ephraem Syrus (1853); John Gwynn, introduction to St Ephrem, Nicene and Post-Nicene Fathers, second series, vol. 13 (1898)
Is it St Ephrem’s own?
St Ephrem was a deacon from Nisibis who later lived in Edessa and died in AD 373. His writings were so popular that for centuries afterwards other writers put hundreds of works under his name. Tradition credits this short hymn to him, but no one can be sure it is his own.
What the words mean
Why give glory to God at her death?
The fourth verse ends “Glory to Him Who has taken her away!” In fresh grief, the line can sound hard. The Latin translation of 1743 reads it as thanks that God has taken her out of a life of hardship. When Job’s children died, he said, “The LORD gave, and the LORD has taken away. Blessed be the name of the LORD” (Job 1:21). The next verses ask God to raise her up.
Henry Burgess, Select Metrical Hymns and Homilies of Ephraem Syrus (1853), pp. 48-49; Sancti Patris Nostri Ephraem Syri Opera omnia, Syriac and Latin vol. 3 (Rome, 1743), p. 289
Who was she?
The hymn never names her. The Syriac edition printed in Rome in 1743 sets it among the hymns for the funerals of women. A Russian translation of St Ephrem’s works, printed by the Holy Trinity-St Sergius Lavra, gives it the title “On the death of the mother of a family”.
Sancti Patris Nostri Ephraem Syri Opera omnia, Syriac and Latin vol. 3 (Rome, 1743), p. 289; Творения святого Ефрема Сирина, vol. 4, Funeral hymns (Azbyka)
The Scripture in it
“By the sweat of your brow you will eat your bread, until you return to the ground—because out of it were you taken. For dust you are, and to dust you shall return.”
Bible text: Berean Standard Bible, public domain.