Albrecht Dürer’s engraving of Saint Jerome writing at his desk, a lion and a dog asleep on the floor of his study

What did the early Christians say about family and calling?

Nearly all agreed. Tertullian, Origen and 10 others would say yes to the statement below. Only Gregory of Nazianzus would say no.

  • 13On record
  • 12Would agree
  • 1Would disagree

The statement in the quiz

“If you believe God is calling you, follow, even if your family begs you not to.”

The quiz puts it in today’s words. Each person below is placed by what they wrote or said. Where their line is clear on its own, it is printed with its source.

12 early Christians

Would agree

Clement of Alexandria c. 150 to c. 215 · Alexandria

Clement agrees:

“Should a brother say the like, should a child, should a wife, should any one whosoever, in preference to all let Christ in you be conqueror. For He contends in your behalf.”

Who Is the Rich Man That Shall Be Saved?

Tertullian c. 155 to after 220 · Carthage

Tertullian strongly agrees:

“Parents, wives, children, will have to be left behind, for God's sake. Do you hesitate about arts, and trades, and about professions likewise, for the sake of children and parents?”

On Idolatry

Ambrose of Milan c. 339 to 397 · Milan

Ambrose strongly agrees:

“And the anxious entreaties of your parents are your first battles. Conquer your affection first, O maiden. If you conquer your home, you conquer the world.”

On Virgins

Jerome c. 347 to 420 · Rome and Bethlehem

Jerome strongly agrees:

“Should your father prostrate himself on the threshold, trample him under foot and go your way.”

Letter to Heliodorus

He wrote this as a young man. Years later he said he had decked that letter out with the flourishes of the schools.

Gregory the Great c. 540 to 604 · Rome

Gregory the Great strongly agrees:

“We should love those joined to us by kinship of the flesh, whom we know as our neighbours; but those we suffer as adversaries on the way of God we should refuse to know, by hating and fleeing them.”

Homilies on the Gospels. Our translation

His comment on Luke 14:26, where Jesus says that whoever does not hate father and mother cannot be His disciple.

1 early Christian

Would disagree

What they said

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